Should I break up because of her tragic un-coolness? Because at almost 30, she still lives like a student? She pan-fries her cooked pasta for Christ's sake. FOR FIFTEEN MINUTES. Do I ignore her infinite sweetness, her smarmy demeanour and absolute unselfishness in the sack? Do I distance myself from someone who cries about how things weren't suppose to be this way, and how she was suppose to be still married to her cheating husband? Or breaks up with me the day before our trip to Paradise? ONE DAY BEFORE. But her passion, sense of adventure and kindness makes me think again. Can I leave behind an immature drunk who doesn't have a driver's license or even a credit card, but looks at the world in such an open, loving way that I can't help but get swept in and ask her to spend the rest of her life with me? But why should they love a depressed, workaholic jerk who they &quot;can't really talk to&quot;, but treats them like gold and shows them what a life worth living might look like. We make choices, and they make us. 2008-02-05T21:12:01Z http://ficlets.com/feed/story/20205 <p>Not sure if Pros out way the cons here. high matinence..</p> http://ficlets.com/stories/20205?basename=38907 2008-02-05T21:12:01Z SKermitgorf http://ficlets.com/authors/kermitgorf