Most people say looks don’t matter. I say F that!! Thats all that guys look for. If they don’t look at your face then they look at how you dress and what you act like. From experience i know that its good to not care what people say about you but i am the most insecure person you will ever hear about. I take everything that people say to heart if its that I’m so black or No one wants to go with you. Thats what I’ve been told lots of time and you would think that i would be used to it but I’m not. I’m the type of person that would bottle up my feelings when I’m at school and just start crying as soon as I come home. I’ve just been told today that no one would want to go with me and he basically called me ugly… and a slut….and that really hurt me. What should I do? I’m thinking just telling him how that really hurts me and tell other people that its not cool and to please stop. Like I was saying, looks does matter. Its not the biggest thing in a relationship or in starting one but it plays a big part.