I'm hopeless..Need advice.

by crazee_writa

I am brown haired and have brown eyes. I am in 7th grade. I am normal height, a normal girl. I’m not popular and have one friend, she’s not even a close friend either. I can say I have plenty of enemies.
He is blonde haired and beatiful blue eyes. He’s in 7th grade. He has lots of friends and I’d say he’s popular. I doubt he has enemies.
He’s both sensitive and humurous, we have the same opinions and even some of the same likes. He talks to me sometimes, but barely conversations.
I can’t stop thinking about him. I dream about him. This is not a crush that will go away. But I don’t want to be rejected. I’m afraid to ask him out. We’ve barely said a paragraph to each other. I don’t think he even cares about me. Soon we graduate and then he’s just a memory.
My name is Brianna, his is Terence. What do names have to do with it?
This is not just some crush that will fade away…
Could this be love? Will I be crushed? HELP !
(This is a 100 percent TRUE story and I need advice and help so please give. Thanks!)

Comments

  1. I'm hopeless..Need advice.

    John Perkins' Buddy Icon John Perkins

    Posted 3 months ago

    Nothing. No. Probably.
    Ask him out. Good chance he’ll reject you, but it’s good to get that sort of practice. You’ll be rejected many, many, many times in life, in different situations. You need to conquer your fear of rejection, or you’ll always be too afraid to experience the true joys in life.
    Best case scenario, you guys date for a few months until it inevitably ends. At which point you practice ending a relationship.

  2. I'm hopeless..Need advice.

    Dreamer's Buddy Icon Dreamer

    Posted 3 months ago

    Another message of positivity by John Perkins, Thank you John.
    lol.
    Ok, here is my advice: This sounds exactly like me 2 years ago. Please don’t make the same mistake I did. Try to get to know him, try to have a paragraph long conversation with him before you ask him out. Then, go for it.
    And if he does reject you… well, the stupid blondy probably wasn’t worth it anyway. But, as pessimistic John said, you can’t be scared of rejection. if you never try you’ll never know.

  3. I'm hopeless..Need advice.

    Fantasy's Buddy Icon Fantasy

    Posted 3 months ago

    ask him out. look at it this way: if he says no, then he’s not the right guy for you, and you can move on. if he says yes, then you’ll be happy. But, if you don’t even try asking him out, you might never see him again (or at least not for the whole summer) and you’ll definitely regret it!!! If you don’t ask him out, you’ll always wonder what he would have said if you took the chance!! so, take the chance!!!! like i said, if he says no, then he’s a loser, and you deserve better.

  4. I'm hopeless..Need advice.

    Dreamer's Buddy Icon Dreamer

    Posted 3 months ago

    haha, I totally agree Fantasy. If he says no, he’s a total loser. Guys who say no to great ficleteer girls should all be rounded up and pushed off of cliffs.

  5. I'm hopeless..Need advice.

    crazee_writa's Buddy Icon crazee_writa

    Posted 3 months ago

    lol. thanks guys. :) ur the best!!

  6. I'm hopeless..Need advice.

    crazee_writa's Buddy Icon crazee_writa

    Posted 3 months ago

    there is another thing: my parents. do i tell them? they’d never let me date anyone
    (probably)

  7. I'm hopeless..Need advice.

    Dreamer's Buddy Icon Dreamer

    Posted 3 months ago

    Well… I’m a huge advocate for telling parents, but that’s partially because it’s easy to be moral when you suck at lying… So morally, yes, you should tell them. I wasn’t supposed to date in 7th grade either, but they liked the guy, and they trusted me, and I made up some stuff about how middle school is stupid and you can’t hang out with guys unless you’re dating them we’re-really-just-friends crap… which was partially true, so I pulled it off. It depends, but morally, yes, you should tell them.

  8. I'm hopeless..Need advice.

    Dreamer's Buddy Icon Dreamer

    Posted 3 months ago

    btw: the key is to debate calmly. Never. Ever. Yell. Think of a few good reasons (I’m madly in love with him isn’t one, btw. according to parents that is…)

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