Now you know that foreign substance or directions from mind to mind can change the equilibrium of one’s self. And that is what the lady guest in your hostel has seemingly done to you. You had earlier scourgages of doing or not doing what were not to be done or supposedly done dictated to you by your social upbringing education and environments. This anomaly or short coming with you probably had shaken your will power, prudence and wisdom leaving your self open so you be won over or conquered to repair the gaps. So you unconsciously accepted the new way or new practices or solar civilization that was offered to you will its own advantages and disadvantages benefits and looses like a scientific dialecticism was turned spiritual dialecticism within your mind. It is nothing but self-created self orientated feelings.