You start to write a so called ‘Bucket List’ of things to do before you die, and you realise how negative that sounds,so you write your list as:
10 Things To Do While I’m Alive

10.Believe that everything happens for a reason.

9. Have faith, pray everyday for others.

8.Have a positive attitude.

7. Be a mentor, a muse, an advisor to young and old alike.

6. Be an inspiration to others.

5.Treasure family and friends.

4. Publish a novel, or short story.

3.Live in the moment.

2. Fall in love, again.

1.Be cheerful, upbeat , caring and kind.

Then you reread your list and realise you’re doing them all but number 4 now already.