Nothing. No. Probably. Ask him out. Good chance he’ll reject you, but it’s good to get that sort of practice. You’ll be rejected many, many, many times in life, in different situations. You need to conquer your fear of rejection, or you’ll always be too afraid to experience the true joys in life. Best case scenario, you guys date for a few months until it inevitably ends. At which point you practice ending a relationship.
Another message of positivity by John Perkins, Thank you John. lol. Ok, here is my advice: This sounds exactly like me 2 years ago. Please don’t make the same mistake I did. Try to get to know him, try to have a paragraph long conversation with him before you ask him out. Then, go for it. And if he does reject you… well, the stupid blondy probably wasn’t worth it anyway. But, as pessimistic John said, you can’t be scared of rejection. if you never try you’ll never know.
ask him out. look at it this way: if he says no, then he’s not the right guy for you, and you can move on. if he says yes, then you’ll be happy. But, if you don’t even try asking him out, you might never see him again (or at least not for the whole summer) and you’ll definitely regret it!!! If you don’t ask him out, you’ll always wonder what he would have said if you took the chance!! so, take the chance!!!! like i said, if he says no, then he’s a loser, and you deserve better.
haha, I totally agree Fantasy. If he says no, he’s a total loser. Guys who say no to great ficleteer girls should all be rounded up and pushed off of cliffs.
Well… I’m a huge advocate for telling parents, but that’s partially because it’s easy to be moral when you suck at lying… So morally, yes, you should tell them. I wasn’t supposed to date in 7th grade either, but they liked the guy, and they trusted me, and I made up some stuff about how middle school is stupid and you can’t hang out with guys unless you’re dating them we’re-really-just-friends crap… which was partially true, so I pulled it off. It depends, but morally, yes, you should tell them.
btw: the key is to debate calmly. Never. Ever. Yell. Think of a few good reasons (I’m madly in love with him isn’t one, btw. according to parents that is…)
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