If this is for you, then you'll know
I’m not good at this. Anything to do with feelings… I’m out.
It’s weird, I used to be better. I used to know what to say. Now, it’s different. I guess before, I was better at it because I was stable.
Now, I’ve been in your positions, plenty of times. Not the same variables, but the same feeling. I’ve been… close to the edge.
The other part is telling people. I’ve never been good with that. When I’m like that… I don’t say it. I feel like I have nothing to complain about it. Don’t tell me that you’re here for me, I know.
And then, I see other people, mainly you guys, say it. I don’t want to say “I know the feeling, I’ve been there” because it bugs the hell out of me when other people say it to me. I feel like I’m down-sizing what you’re feeling by telling you that. And it feels that way when other people say it to me. And I know that’s not your intention, you don’t have to tell me.
But just because someone doesn’t say something, doesn’t mean it’s not there. I think we all need to learn that.