I met a man at a upscale bar, he was behind the bar and I thought the bartender. He is 6’4 and 260 lbs. that equals heaven in my loins. I said to my girl, “hey , see that guy. OMG he is heaven walking in my opinion – THAT is what I want.” So, of course being a bud she called to him “hey, my girls thinks you’re hot!” He laughed, smiled and came over to meet us. He is Irish (that’s the icing) , single, gorgeous, 21,working and in college. He gets back to work. In a bit he returns and hands me a piece of paper with his name and number plus “call me” on it. I give him my business card. He calls later that night, wants to see me. Well. No. Not yet. After several days and calls I agree to see him. He comes over and we discuss my moral dilemma, he is only 19, how hypocritical I feel, how excited we are, how we are both adults and single. We decide to have fun, life is about times like this. We have been together a year now, we are in love. I meet his Mom next week for the first time. I am 39 , his mom is 45…...