You don’t know if he’s going to read it or not. More than likely though, he’ll read it and then laugh about it while showing it to his friends. If he’s not returning any of your attempts at correspondence, then I’d imagine he’s moved on and you’d do better to do the same. I guarantee that neither of you are the same person you were two years ago (and you’ll change about 15 more times before you hit 25). You have feelings for the person he was two years ago, not necessarily for who he is now.
You might just want to ignore this but idk it might help. I think you should just keep trying to contact him. Eventually he’s bound to talk to you. If his mom’s right and its a “phase” it’ll pass. Don’t stress out about it. Just tell him and no matter what at least you know you did all you could. If that doesn’t help, write a couple of Ficlets about him, that always helps me.
Definitely some therapeutic potential in writing the letter. In sending the letter, not so much. Do what you need to do to come to terms with that loss, but make sure that those things only involve your actions or what you have direct control over. Leaving your progression and closure up to the emotional depth and responsibility of a 15 year old boy is like bungee jumping with dental floss. Trust me; I was one. Honestly, probably for the best you didn’t get serious with him.
Definitely some therapeutic potential in writing the letter. In sending the letter, not so much. Do what you need to do to come to terms with that loss, but make sure that those things only involve your actions or what you have direct control over. Leaving your progression and closure up to the emotional depth and responsibility of a 15 year old boy is like bungee jumping with dental floss. Trust me; I was one. Honestly, probably for the best you didn’t get serious with him.
I’d tell you to write a letter, but please don’t send it…It might backfire and hurt you. Like THX said, the writing itself is therapeutic, but I don’t think you should give it to him.
I would have stopped contacting him already if he didn’t respond at all.
First, let me say: This isn’t Yahoo Answers and why would you trust someone on the internet over what your heart is telling you? Secondly, Your question is simple, and the answer is even simpler. Listen to your heart. But that’s not as easy as it sounds, is it? So let’s clear it up a little bit. Ask yourself, What do you dislike about him? If you can’t come up with an honest answer, then you may be infatuated. True love is when you love other’s because of their flaws, not inspite of them.
i think you should watch the movie “May” By lucky mckee.then maybe “Carrie” by steven king then invader zim and they will lead you to one conclusion. forget him it’s his loss.my daughter is sixteenth and there is only one time i allow her to cuss and this might be just that incedent look in the mirror ands brush of your sholder and say, “That shit don’t fade me.”
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