Since I don’t know you or your situation, this isn’t directed specifically at you, but more of a general rant on apologies.
This is the problem I have with apologies. You’re only sorry because of the way it turned out. You’re sorry for hurting him, but you would have done the same exact thing again if the results would have been more to your liking. You’re not really sorry for what you did, you’re sorry that it didn’t turn out in a way that benefited you.

well it’s true that you don’t know me or my situation. otherwise you would know how wrong your comment is. You have to know how much of a brother this kid is to me and you have to know how much i take these things to heart. if you knew me at all, (which you don’t) you would know that no matter WHAT the results were I’d be sorry that he had to feel pain and hurt. because i’m not shallow, and you shouldn’t critisize all other apologies as such.

i agree i think it was really sweet of her to write this and i think that you need to keep your opinions to yourself, mr. john perkins. as for you just another writer, i DO know you and i know you dont really trust me that much and stuffs, but believe me when i say he knows ur sorry, you didnt even have to say it and he would know. i really think you 2 are like ‘long lost siblings’ or something seriously. but yeah, i seriously doubt he’d let ANYTHING get in the way of ya’ll’s friendship. so dont worry.. =)